Happy Friday, Halloween, and Samhain Divine Collective! ✨🎃👻
If you’re celebrating, I’d love to know how you’re spending the day—are you setting up an ancestor altar, pulling cards, watching spooky movies, or just soaking up the energy of the season?
With the veil at its thinnest today, spiritual self-care just feels right. Share your rituals or plans in the comments below!
As I reflect on the tarotscope I pulled for October, I have to say: I’m so relieved this month is coming to a close. Just as the cards hinted, it brought plenty of delays, obstacles, and emotional tests. But honestly, I’m grateful for the foresight, as it helped me stay as grounded as possible through all the chaos.
I had set a goal of reaching 10k followers on TikTok by 10/10 this month. I was already past 9k, so I thought another thousand followers wouldn’t be too hard to acquire with a few more viral videos, right?
But when I pulled cards for the collective tarotscope, I immediately sensed that this specific goal would be one of the delays Spirit was revealing.
And that’s what I get for chasing after a time limit. My guides don’t like that lol
However, the FYI was a nice little cushion for my disappointment once the date passed. 10k was only a goal because hitting it would have triggered a potentially substantial, consistent payout from TikTok, given my usual views and engagement. But even that shifted this month.
Not only has my energy been wack, making my content creation more sporadic than usual, but my usual consistency with viewers has also dropped, in turn affecting the average amount of clients I’ve been receiving.
It was delay on top of delay…on top of…OH, just one more delay sneaking up around the corner. That last one: my plans of seeing my boyfriend this month have gone down the drain.
The 4 of Wands (reversed) points to themes of travel, community, home, stability, and celebration. A reminder: delayed does not mean denied.
But Spirit was right. It’s not like I’m never going to see him again, or never hit 10k, and as I typed that previous sentence…an order came through!
What I’ve learned about setting goals and trying to manifest certain things this month is that the universe doesn’t respond solely to what we deserve, what we ask for, or what we repeat to ourselves—it responds to how we feel about these things. Law of Assumption.
It’s confidence over anxiety, persistence over giving up or giving in to fear.
So I reframe my emotional crashouts as me learning how to navigate the natural ebbs and the flows of running my own business. Or I’ll recite something my mother always used to say: “It’ll get paid when it gets paid. It won’t be the end of the world.” And it never is. I allow myself to feel the humanness of uncertainty while reassuring myself that things always get taken care of.
Delayed does not mean denied. Maybe that’s why Spirit puts us through so many trials and tribulations in the first place: to show us that we’re still being divinely guided and supported, even if it’s just a push to help us find another method to reach the same destination. Because life will never go exactly how we want it to.
I didn’t make the first 9k overnight, and I’m not upset that the rest is arriving in the same CPT fashion. Like the advice said, I keep following my passions anyway. The more I push through despite the delays, the more I’m rewarded.
How was your October?
With last month’s reflections behind us, let’s step into the collective energy for November✨
As always, I’ll begin with a collective reading for my free subscribers, then continue with a tarot and oracle pull for each zodiac sign, exclusively for my paid subscribers.
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November comes in crowned by Individuality (Power deck, #31). It’s a “be yourself, whether they get it or not” kind of month.
Where the earlier parts of the year asked us to shift, align, and release, November is saying: start living into who you’ve become. We don’t need anyone’s approval, because we aren’t living each other’s lives (that’s usually coming from places of doubt).
Our unfiltered and unapologetic authenticity might get tested this month. You might feel tense, anxious, alone, or out of sync sometimes. Let that be the signal: you’re not meant to blend into every room. Step into the energy of the native in Individuality’s photo; the original, the trendsetter, the weird one they didn’t expect.
The more you stand by your truth, the more you’ll attract the right mirrors, even if others flinch at your light. Don’t apologize or minimize just for being different.
1. How Will My Collective Feel?
Queen of Cups Reversed clarified by Loyalty Reversed (with Ace of Swords and Temperance Reversed at the bottom) — Cancer, Air energy, Sagittarius
Emotionally, the collective is pulling inward. There’s a strong sense of “I have to tend to me first.” We’re reconnecting to intuition, to internal guidance, and to feeling before we speak.
There may be relationships or dynamics we’ve tolerated too long—like I said before, there’s this “flip-flop” sort of energy that comes to test the boundaries of our individuality and authenticity. It could be a wrestle with betrayal or broken trust. Gossip and passive-aggressive behavior are coming up; it’s giving a wounded feminine energy, mother wounds perhaps? This month, we’ll feel compelled to disconnect from what doesn’t let us be ourselves.
Protect your heart. But be careful: situations aren’t always black-and-white. Sometimes the person triggering you actually holds a lesson to offer. Don’t let defensiveness sharpen your tongue into a tool that’s only meant to wound or distance you from a needed honest conversation.
Maybe it’s a mirror: are you being true to yourself?
Are you overexplaining or overapologizing for things you shouldn’t, or maybe don't want to?
Carrying guilt or shame that doesn't belong on your shoulders?
Giving your emotional currency to friends, lovers, and family who see you as “optional”, not enough, or too much? 2. What Might We Experience This Month?
Temperance clarified by Bug a Boo, with 2 of Swords Reversed and King of Wands Reversed at the top — Sagittarius, Libra, Aries/Fire energy
Balance is the name of the game, but it won’t come neatly. Some decisions may already feel settled on in the subconscious, but this month, the focus is on how we carry out our choices and decisions. This will show through moments of introspection when your new boundaries, desires, identities, or feelings might get tested. Now that we understand our inner world a bit differently, our external world has to readjust as well. Things are, simply put, being reorganized and reestablished, especially in group and couple dynamics.
The focus isn’t about the other person; it’s about personal energy: what are they triggering in me? What do I want? Who am I becoming? Some of us won’t have all the clarity we might want, but that’s okay. I think the pot was meant to be stirred in October, so in November, we can see better where adjustments might need to be made.
This could be moments of indecision or self-doubt, questioning whether we’re equipped, skilled, or capable enough to even continue moving toward what we want. November may bring endings, beginnings, and shifts we didn’t anticipate—doors closing that we didn’t know were ajar, people or situations revealing themselves as unavailable, or just no longer worth our energy. Some of us have intuitively felt something nagging at us, yanking on the edges of our shirts like a child wanting to be acknowledged—yet we don’t know exactly what it is. I think November will shed more light on that feeling.
We may revisit memories or connections and feel that chemistry or alignment isn’t the same as it once was. This could apply to romantic situations, friendships, or other close bonds. The month asks us to notice where we’re holding on to what isn’t serving us and to finally release it, trusting that the redirection will bring us closer to what truly resonates in divine timing.
3. Advice for the Collective
Be Present clarified by 9 of Cups
November is asking us to slow down, reconnect with the moment, and fully embrace what’s in front of us. Be present. Notice the small joys, the friendships, the little pleasures that remind you life is still beautiful, even as things shift and feel heavy or confusing. Gratitude and indulgence in life’s simple blessings will be grounding. Don’t let triggered wounds, betrayals, or overthinking keep you stagnant—November wants you awake in your own life.
Energy of growth and creation is strong this—whether that’s literal pregnancy, the birth of a project, a strengthened relationship, or personal evolution, something is forming beneath the surface that I think you guys are expecting or planning for. It will bloom in time. Stay present with it, nurture it, and trust yourself to handle the timing.
Be mindful, though: Mercury Retrograde runs November 9–29, 2025, bringing communication and tech glitches (as a Virgo rising, I already want to tape my mouth shut and chuck my phone out the window). So, a reminder to double-check EVERYTHING before moving forward. It’s famously known as a terrible time to sign contracts and get back with returning exes, but look into your astrological transit chart to see which house Mercury will be retrograde in. This could provide some insight into how this retrograde energy might affect your life. (Lucky me, it’s my third house of communication! That explains my last note now.)
Trust the process. Even if luck seems delayed or off-track, it’s still working in your favor behind the scenes, quietly moving your desires toward you, and you toward them. This is a month of success, satisfaction, and indulgence—can’t wait for my Thanksgiving meal already!!!
With the collective energy set, let’s dive deeper. This next part is for my exclusive subscribers—a little extra love from me to you. I’ll be pulling one tarot card for your main November theme/energy and one oracle card for advice, asking what each sign needs to know for November.
These messages are meant to be taken as guidance, not gospel. Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and remember—energy shifts. Let’s see what November has in store for each sign.
Aries ♈️
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